The Interfering Mother

by Emelia Spargo
21st September 2016

'Three days of our honeymoon left.' Jago said into the silence. 'What do you want to do?'

'I can't think. I know what I don't want to do.' Carenza told him.

'What's that?'

'Visit our families. I know mine will be embarassingly inquisitive.'

Right at that moment, they heard the front door open and a womans voice called out

'Hellooooo!'

Carenza paled a little.

'Oh Lord.' she groaned.

'Is that your mother by any chance?'

'Definitely.'

The front door slammed shut and a little round woman, with short light hair and glasses appeared at their kitchen door.

'There you are! Hello Carenza.'

Ever polite, Carenza got to her feet and kissed her mothers proferred cheek.

'Hello Mum.' she said stiffly. 

'It's nice to see you again, Mrs Berryman.' Jago had also stood and kissed the same cheek.

'Oh please, we're family. Call me Tegen.' Carenza's mother smiled and looked around towards the lounge. Her expression changed. 'You've rearranged all the furniture! Why on earth did you do that? It took me ages to get it perfect.'

Carenza clenched her fists and tried to stay calm.

'We argued about this before. I like the furniture this way. That's why I arranged it like this in the first place when I was here with Kensa.'

'It just looks so close together.'

'The way you had it, one of the arm chairs was facing away from the window and the television.'

'But if you have people around they won't be looking at you.'

'They'll have a better view this way. If it doesn't work we can move it again, but for now, me and Jago have arranged the furniture in our home as we like it.'

Tegen obviously picked up on the irritation and, glancing at Jago, she let the subject drop. Then immediately picked up on a new one.

'Why on earth have you got orange flowers in the house? Carenza, you know how I hate orange flowers indoors!'

'I do.' Carenza tried to keep the annoyance out of her tone. 'Though I've no idea why. They were a gift. From Jago's mother.'

'Oh.' Tegen suddenly seemed embarassed. 'I see.'

Jago smiled in his most charming manner.

'May I offer you a cup of tea Tegen?' he said. Carenza bit her lip and tried not to laugh at his over the top formality.

'Yes. That would be very nice. Thank you Jago.'

'Please, do sit down.' Jago pulled out a chair.

'Thank you.' Tegen sat down, looking a bit confused. Jago had always been perfectly charming before but now he seemed to be overdoing it a bit.

'Would you like anything to eat? I could make you some toast if you like.'

'No, thank you.'

Jago fetched another mug and he and Carenza both resumed their places at the table. 

'What bring you here today Mother?' Carenza noted how Jago's formality of the moment had rubbed off on her.

'I'm seeing how you are.'

'You don't need to check up on me.'

'I'm your mother and you are only nineteen.'

Carenza's temper flared again, but she tried hard not to shout.

'I am a married woman, Mother. A marriage which you arranged.'

'I'm only trying to do my best for you Carenza.'

She's doing it again Carenza said to herself. The old guilt trip trick.

'Tegen.' Jago had reverted back to his normal tone of voice. 'We appreciate all your help. But we are still on our honeymoon, in the early days of marriage. We're still getting to know each other. I'm afraid we need our own space to do that.'

'Perhaps, you should have stayed away longer.' Tegen said a little cuttingly.

'My intention, was for us to have a few days to settle into our new home together before I have to start my new job.' Jago explained.

'Thanks for the concern Mum, but I'm afraid your role in all this ended the moment we were pronounded married.' Carenza told her. 

'A mothers role is never over.'

'I never said your role as my mother was over. I said your role in my marriage was.' Carenza gave a sigh of exasperation. 'Mum, I love you, you know I do. But me and Jago have to sort out our life together on our own. And we'd really rather you didn't just let yourself in from now on.'

'You gave me a key. Why shouldn't I use it?'

'I gave you a key so you could keep an eye on the place while we were away and in case there is ever an emergency.'

'Oh. Well. If that's how you want it.' She suddenly stood up.

'Mum, please don't be like that.'

'I know when I'm not wanted.'

Before either of them could do anything, Carenza's mother had disappeared out of the door, without drinking her tea.

'That, was intense.' Jago remarked. 'Is she always like that?'

'A control freak? Guilt tripping her children?' said Carenza. 'Always. You should have seen her before Kenwyn and Kathik got married. She drove them mad. No wonder they're planning to move further up county at the first oppourtunity. She's already planning to get Perran married off as well and he's only seventeen.'

 

 

Comments

What's missing from your explanation is why it's set in an alternate universe. So far this is just a story of an odd marriage and manipulative parents, which could happen at any time. What's your reason for choosing the different setting, and what does it bring to the plot?

Until you have worked out what journey you want these people to take, it's going to be hard to write with any conviction; you're going to be treating each episode as a one-off, whereas there has to be some reason for present actions with regard to what happens in the end. Hard to navigate from A to B if you have no idea where B is.

You haven't got to know your characters yet - that's fair enough: they will surprise you no matter who well you think you've planned them - but you need to bring more of the differences into play between life here and now, and life then.

Another suggested ending: go for option 3, but hold out the promise that one day, when they are older and wiser, they realise that actually they do love each other.

All mothers know better than their children - it's in the job description!

So sorry to hear that your mother has moved into the world of dementia: cruel for the sufferer, and so hard and so frustrating for those left behind on the outside. We look for a reason why the person we knew is only there in rare glimpses, and there simply isn't one.

That's the hardest thing of all, because if you don't know the enemy, you can't go on the attack. Settling for acceptance of the unexplained goes against our nature, I suppose.

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Sorry I was doing my old trick again. Trying to type it from memory and not referring to the original notes. It was late again as well and I didn't proof read it, again.

Tegen is actually loosely based on MY mum, but I greatly emphasised the annoying bits. I don't think my mum would have ever rearranged my furniture or forced me into a marriage. She wouldn't just let herself into anyone's house unless she was invited to do so, regardless of whether or not she had a key. She occasionally guilt tripped me into things but usually it was something silly such as clothes she liked and I didn't. I fought back a bit and usually just had to deal with a few days of sulking. Mum didn't like orange flowers in the house, same as Carenza's mother, though I've no idea why. In recent years my Mum's had a brain injury that's turned into dementia. Sometimes talking to her is like talking to a child and when she gets particularly difficult, I call her Mother rather than Mum (only a couple of times she noticed and told me off) So a lot of it is drawn from real life and magnified. In her current state Mum does seem to think she runs my life and knows it better than I do...

The idea with Carenza is that she's discovering a new independence with her marriage. She's finally realising that she's no longer controlled by her parents. She's done what they wanted her to do now. This is also just after Jago and Carenza have, to use what I suppose is a civilised term, consummated their marriage. A side effect is that Carenza feels a lot older and more confident with herself.

I haven't quite decided about Jago. I think he's mostly sex mad yet loyal. He vows he will never cheat on his wife and will always stick by her but they will both be tested when his parents start inferring as well. I think at this stage they're still getting to know each other and messing about a bit. Neither of them have had a proper relationship before and their marriage can go one of three ways:

They can argue bitterly. one or both could have an affair and be very unhappy together.

They can go for the old cliche and actually fall in love with each other and be wondrously happy together.

Or, they could do neither of the above. They could not fall in love, yet be very good friends.

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'That... was intense!' Jago remarked. 'Is she always like that?'

I rather like THAT.

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